Our services begin with a one hour consultation between the mediator and the prospective couple. This initial meeting is designed to be exclusively informational, during which the process is explained in detail and ample opportunity is provided for concerns to be addressed and questions to be answered. Historically, the meeting has enabled couples to make an informed decision whether the process is consistent with their expectations; whether mediation is the right choice for them; whether they feel comfortable with the particular mediator.

If the couple decides that they wish to participate in the mediation process, they can schedule an appointment for their first mediation session.

Guidance is provided to enable the participants to address relevant issues and explore alternative choices, hopefully culminating in acceptable solutions that both endorse. This process occurs in a neutral setting, where all participants are expected to engage in a courteous, respectful and focused dialogue. Issues encompass those that naturally arise when parties anticipate separating and/or divorcing, as well as post-divorce modifications.

The schedule of appointments varies depending on the needs of the couples and mediators. Sessions ordinarily occur on a weekly or bi-weekly basis, at days and times agreeable to all. Each session is ordinarily on hour or one and a half hours in length.

Our mediators strive to be as flexible as possible in regard to scheduling and are aware that discussion must be preceded by the providing of relevant information, without which meaningful dialogue cannot occur. Full and honest disclosure of assets and liabilities, income and expenses is required. This is critically necessary as the basis for an informed, binding and enforceable agreement.

Accordingly, the first mediation session ordinarily encompasses the thorough explanation and enumeration of what information needs to be obtained and what documents need to be produced. Alternatively, some couples prefer to initiate discussion of custody and visitation issues, especially if there exists pressing and immediate problem regarding children.

As to any and all issues, nothing is decided, let alone included in a written agreement, unless and until each party clearly communicates his or her consent on each issue. Each party has the absolute right to terminate his/her participation in the mediation process at any time prior to signing of an actual written agreement.